Divorce is much more than an official ending of a marriage by an official decision in a court of law.
1Cor 7:10 - 16
To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband
(but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
To the rest I say (I, not the Lord) that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her.
If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him.
For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace.
For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
Mar 10: 2 - 9
And Pharisees came up and in order to test him asked, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?"
He answered them, "What did Moses command you?"
They said, "Moses allowed a man to write a certificate of divorce and to send her away."
And Jesus said to them, "Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment.
But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female.'
'Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife,
and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two but one flesh.
What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Fornication (Egbreek)
Consenting sex involving somebody unmarried:
sexual intercourse between two consenting adults who are not married to each other
Sexual intercourse between a man and woman who are not married, or any form of sexual behaviour is immoral (source: The Holy Bible)
The Bible:
Mar 10:11 - 12
And he said to them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery."
Mat 5:27 - 32
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.'
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.
And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.
"It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Heb 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
sexual intercourse between two consenting adults who are not married to each other
Sexual intercourse between a man and woman who are not married, or any form of sexual behaviour is immoral (source: The Holy Bible)
The Bible:
Mar 10:11 - 12
And he said to them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery."
Mat 5:27 - 32
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery.'
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.
And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.
"It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'
But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Heb 13:4
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
Bestiality
What is Bestiality?
• A sexual activity between a person and an animal
• Any sexual act with an animal ranging from body contact to oral-genital contact, to penetration.
• Unnatural carnal connection or sexual intercourse with animals.
(Some victims are forced to do this for bestiality pornography, which is lucrative on the black market.)
And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is perversion.
Lev 18:23
• A sexual activity between a person and an animal
• Any sexual act with an animal ranging from body contact to oral-genital contact, to penetration.
• Unnatural carnal connection or sexual intercourse with animals.
(Some victims are forced to do this for bestiality pornography, which is lucrative on the black market.)
And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is perversion.
Lev 18:23
Incest (Bloedskande)
Incest is a sexual relationship with an immediate family member, usually a sibling, parent or child. It is illegal in most civilised countries as it can cause diseases and deformed babies if pregnancy was to happen.
Perversion
What does PERVERSION means.
Action of perverting:
• Lead away from what is right, natural or morally
• change the inherent purpose or function of something.
• Depravity, corruption, wickedness, vice.
• to lead into deviant or perverted beliefs or behaviour; corrupt
• to interpret wrongly or badly; distort
• to debase
What is PERVERSION?
Another version, as perverse as the participant wants, of a reality that might seem like sinister at once that endearing.
They come joined with the absence of qualm and shame. Perversion likes to create confusion, and it is contradictory sometimes, its definition is opened to be changed, to be increased or reduced.
What is a PERVERT?
- a person whose behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior
Action of perverting:
• Lead away from what is right, natural or morally
• change the inherent purpose or function of something.
• Depravity, corruption, wickedness, vice.
• to lead into deviant or perverted beliefs or behaviour; corrupt
• to interpret wrongly or badly; distort
• to debase
What is PERVERSION?
Another version, as perverse as the participant wants, of a reality that might seem like sinister at once that endearing.
They come joined with the absence of qualm and shame. Perversion likes to create confusion, and it is contradictory sometimes, its definition is opened to be changed, to be increased or reduced.
What is a PERVERT?
- a person whose behavior deviates from what is acceptable especially in sexual behavior
Masturbation
Definition:
Is to give yourself sexual pleasure by stroking the genitals, usually to orgasm.
Is to give yourself sexual pleasure by stroking the genitals, usually to orgasm.
Fornication/Living Together
1Co 7:8 To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am.
1Co 7:9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1Co 7:9 But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Sexual & Pornography Addiction
Addiction is deeply imbedded in one’s emotions.
80-90% of sex addicts suffers from trauma in their childhood.
Sexual & Pornography addiction:
• Gives you self-worth
• Builds your self-esteem
• Causes you to lose your identity
• Causes you to be selfish and disrespectful towards your spouse/partner.
• Causes people not to be able to function normal in a relationship
o makes you to distrust your partner
• People that are addicted to sexual sin/pornography have some form of identity crisis
o addiction is an obsession to belong, to be affirmed knowing you are worth being loved.
• Can take up to 6 years to recover from it
Recent studies have shown that 1 out of 3 on-line porn viewers are women
Most women enters into sexual addiction through love addiction
Sexual/pornography addiction is proven to be the one addictions that causes the most pain and destruction to their partners and the children as it is not only an emotional thing, it is also very abusive. It is much deeper and roots most of the times from childhood (either absent parents / abusive parents / parents that are not involved in you daily life / parents that favor another child more / parents that showed very little love / that disciplined without love, etc.)
This addiction makes you unable to communicate and causes you to abuse your partner, often both physically and emotionally. It results in the addicted party to have no respect for their partner. Most of the times, there is no emotional connection and is only a physical need or desire that must be fulfilled. This causes the addicted person to withdraw from people emotionally, to disconnect in order to be able to deal with the guilt and shame and their behavior is a way of coping with this problem. To deal with their hidden shame.
Text messages (sms), emails, My Space, etc causes people to communicate but there is no intimacy – that is why people move into addiction – trying to fill the void but pornography is 'empty' and that’s why people ‘search’ more and therefore becoming more and more addicted.
Sexual addiction starts by viewing pornography – this fascination then turns into addiction.
Sexual addiction brings in more guilt, shame and condemnation than pleasure.
Sexual addiction comes with more baggage than anything else.
Monday, March 29, 2010
Block Pornography on Cellphone
How to block pornography on a cellphone:
create a message
type in the following: "Block and then enter the number" of the cellphone you wish to block (can be any number, you don't have to do it from the phone you want to block )
send to: 41333
create a message
type in the following: "Block and then enter the number" of the cellphone you wish to block (can be any number, you don't have to do it from the phone you want to block )
send to: 41333
Gebed vir Seksuele sondes
Gebed vir die verbreking van seksuele bande:
Hemelse Vader, in die naam van Jesus onderwerp ek my siel, my begeertes en my emosies aan U Gees.
Ek bely Vader, al my promiskue, voorhuwelikse seksuele verhoudinge en alle seksuele verhoudinge buite die huwelik as sonde. Ek bely ook al my ongoddelike geestelike, sielkundige en liggaamlike bindinge as sonde.
Ek dank U dat U my nou vergewe en reinig deur die bloed van Jesus. Ek dank U dat U aan my die sleutels van U koninkryk gee, die sleutels tot geestelike outoriteit. Wat ek bind is gebonde en wat ek ontbind is ontbonde,
In die Naam van Jesus vra ek U om my vry te maak van alle sielsbindinge met vorige seksuele metgeselle, en ongoddelike verhoudinge. Heilige Gees, ontwortel asb. al hierdie tentakels van seksuele bindinge, kap die wortel van die boom, emosionele begeertes, afhanklikhede en verslawende gedagtes af.
Ek bind, verwerp en weerstaan enige bose geeste wat hierdie sielsbindinge versterk of wat aan my oorgedra is deur vorige metgeselle.
Ek sny nou met die swaard van die Heilige Gees die sielsbande af tussen my endie volgende mense................
Hemelse Vader, in die naam van Jesus onderwerp ek my siel, my begeertes en my emosies aan U Gees.
Ek bely Vader, al my promiskue, voorhuwelikse seksuele verhoudinge en alle seksuele verhoudinge buite die huwelik as sonde. Ek bely ook al my ongoddelike geestelike, sielkundige en liggaamlike bindinge as sonde.
Ek dank U dat U my nou vergewe en reinig deur die bloed van Jesus. Ek dank U dat U aan my die sleutels van U koninkryk gee, die sleutels tot geestelike outoriteit. Wat ek bind is gebonde en wat ek ontbind is ontbonde,
In die Naam van Jesus vra ek U om my vry te maak van alle sielsbindinge met vorige seksuele metgeselle, en ongoddelike verhoudinge. Heilige Gees, ontwortel asb. al hierdie tentakels van seksuele bindinge, kap die wortel van die boom, emosionele begeertes, afhanklikhede en verslawende gedagtes af.
Ek bind, verwerp en weerstaan enige bose geeste wat hierdie sielsbindinge versterk of wat aan my oorgedra is deur vorige metgeselle.
Ek kanselleer julle opdragte teen my in Jesus Naam en ek verklaar dat julle bindinge oor my lewe gebreek is. Ek sal julle nie weer toelaat nie.
Ek sny nou met die swaard van die Heilige Gees die sielsbande af tussen my endie volgende mense................Vader ek bid ook nou in Jesus naam dat U my siel al hierdie onwettige verbintenisse sal laat vergeet sodat ek vry sal wees om my siel totaal aan U en my maat te kan gee.
Vader, ek aanvaar U vergifnis vir al my vorige seksuele sondes, ek glo dat ek volkome vergewe is, en dat ek nou gereinig is van alle ongeregtigheid.
Ek wy myself aan U, hou my asseblief heilig in gees, siel en liggaam deur U genade. Aan U kom toe al die lof , heerskappy en glorie in Jesus se Naam.
Amen.
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